If you really want to help somebody,

first of all you must find him where he is and start there.

This is the secret of caring.

If you cannot do that, it is only an illusion if you think you can help another human being.

Helping somebody implies your understanding more than he does, but first of all you must understand what he understands.

If you cannot do that, your understanding will be of no avail.

the helper must be humble in his attitude towards the people he wants to help.

He must understand that helping is not dominating, but serving.

Caring implies patience as well as acceptance of not being right and of not understanding what the other person understands.”

Soren Kierkegard

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